Dude dont be too paranoid. that wasnt my intention at all. Just for an example, if you look at standard lexus alloys and how tucked into the car they are and then look at something with a decent offset you'll probably agree that the alloys with a decent offset look alot better. Personally, and im sure ormi would agree, i would never spend money on wheels with a gay offset. To me they just look hidden away and dont give the car the stance it needs when lowered
For example. This is mine on standard wheels (sorry about the crappy pic)
Now this is mine with a better offset
Ok im not entirely happy with the stance as i want mine wider and sticking out more. Im probably going to get an offset of around et15 on the next wheels and flare the arches. As you can see tho it gives a much better look. Not saying you have to go that low tho (mines gone lower since those pics )