Thanks all,
In yesterday's long motorway journey I experimented withe various settings. I also checked EV mode and it was fine, operating up to about 25mph at which point the engine would kick in. That's exactly as I would expect.
I decided to make yesterday's an efficient journey, despite the traffic queues, and I managed around 35mpg, which i'm not unhappy about.
In traffic jams a super gentle touch on the accelerator would allow the engine to remain off.
I'm now wondering if it is specific circumstances that is causing the engine to kick in, including a combination of electrical demand, despite retaining gentle acceleration. I tried going through all the settings and switching through sport, eco, snow, and normal, and wonder if there might be a combination there that is not permitting a slow pull away on battery.
I need to do more experiments, although the temperature has now dropped further which is likely to demand more from the battery.