You are so right about individual choice but no matter what you look at there is always a compromise to be made. In the spec of each model there is something you want that isn't there or visa versa and if you're in the used market you can throw colour/mileage etc in the mix as well.
The only consolation is something I saw on FB a few says ago that said “If you dont look back when youve parked your car, you bought the wrong one” Seems Ive bought correct for a number of years (even without folding mirrors 😀)
Good luck, drive safe and happy 👍