Thanks for your comments, I popped into Lexus Bolton and the kind guy ran a check through a Lexus web site (www.lexus-tech.eu/Bluetooth/search.aspx)and my Nokia 2630 came up as not compatible on any of the 8 key needs for it to work. I did ask if he could do a check on what phones would work, but he said chose one and ask me again to run a check hummm, thought it might have been quicker for Lexus to have the information to hand .... Just need to find someone with an orange unlocked phone and keep trying. (very trying)
Keith.