Hi All,
Let me share some thing with you and see what you think ?
I live in flat on ground floor. Neighbour above me lived there for 4 years and then moved out with his GF and rented out his flat.
New neighbour moved in above me about 1.5 years ago.
About year ago I knocked on his door to day his toilet is leaking and inform you landlord, which he did etc etc
Since then we used to say hello hi to each other and shared xmas cards etc no bother at all.
For 1.5 years no issues and friendly exchange of words and hello hi was normal thing.
I have 2 kids both boys. 12 and 5. Last Saturday around 9:30pm they were playing in their room as usual having friendly fight over PS4 game and nothing mega loud, when suddenly Neighbour above me knocked on my door very aggressively.
I opened door and I was like oh Hi how are you.
He never replied to say hello or hi and just abruptly says to me, Do you have kids ? I was like Yes I do and you know I have 2 kids.
He then goes to me they are very loud and people are trying to sleep you know.
I was like oh sorry are they really loud ? they are just playing PS4 as usual.
He was then like, yes they are **** loud and keep them quite, he said that to me and just walked away.
I was really puzzled and shocked and couldn’t resist to say excuse me Mr, no need to swear and you can talk to me bit politely, and he was like I will swear if I want to !
This really ****** me off and I closed door on him saying, oh well Im not talking to you then, Bye.
This happened few days ago and I am still confused and puzzled. I mean why he acted in this aggressive manner suddenly out of no where.
He could have said to me please keep them quite OR I can hear them above or some thing like that. Since we were good neighbours, ofcourse I would have said oh sorry no worries I’ll keep an eye on them and that’s it.
What do you guys think, why he acted this way and suddenly spoiled our 1.5 year friendly neighbourly relationship ?
Just like that ?
Thanks