So here is my update after having a new clutch kit fitted:
1) Judder when pulling away is minimized, almost completely cured. I get a little wobble if I try to roll the car away without throttle and that's pretty much it!
2) My gear stick used to shake on the motorway and you could feel a wobble through the car to, that has completely cured for an even smoother 'new car' cruising feel ;-)
3) Acceleration in all gears is greatly improved (especially 5th and 6th on motorway)!
4) Clutch pedal is like new with a very precise bite. (I did ask the garage to replace and bleed the hydraulic fluid)
Message to all....I wouldn't let this flywheel scare put you off. If you are experiencing judder and have done over 50k, get a new clutch for now, and see how you get on!
Good stuff mate glad it worked out for you, as you say, see how it goes!
Collected the resurfaced flywheel for my car which was skimmed by 2m, looks like new but for £90+vat it should do!
Car being done tomorrow, they have a tester to check the flywheel, if to much play then they will weld it. Having another gearbox put in at the same time as got a slight whine on original, so tomorrow will be interesting... if things work out then great, if not I will grab a branch off the nearest tree and give it a damn good thrashing!!!