I am 1.73m and never noticed this "problem"
I do also drive other cars...
agree that economy is not the greatest, but this car has 100-150kg more than competitors due to noise decreasing materials. You pay for the silence.
gearing it quite high, btw same as in new mazda 6 (except 6th) - nobody complains. Why should they?
IS pulls beautifully from 1800rpm until 4500. In which car can you get 60mpg on second gear?
it is true, that 6th is unusable, but according to my experience, running 100-130kph is more efficient on 5th and also less noisy. And, the less gearchanges you need, the more comfortable car you have, don't you think?
agree, this is bad. but can be sorted for free in warranty.
why this annoys you? My experience is, that when cold engine is idling on standard revs (750-800) it is quite vibrating, on 1200 rpm it is more pleasant, although still very bad when comparing to petrol engine of course.
I think you have 3 real negative points with this car.
You should be happy. Other marques can be much worse!